We find it difficult to manage complexity because we are rooted in the world of  ‘OR’ Right ‘OR’ wrong, yes ‘OR’ no, black ‘OR’ white, us ‘OR’ them, good ‘OR’ bad, beautiful or ugly, past ‘OR’ present, victim ‘OR’ perpetrator, tradition ‘OR’ renewal, punishment ‘OR’ forgiveness, lead ‘OR’ serve, Zulu ‘OR’ Xhosa, English ‘OR’ Afrikaans, African ‘OR’ European, ‘AND’ so we can carry on…We must leave the world of ‘OR’ ‘AND’ enter the new world of ‘AND’. A world that will enable us to embrace Individual rights ‘AND’ the well-being of the community, personal growth ‘AND’ contribution to the collective, freedom of expression ‘AND’ respect for the views of others, collaboration ‘AND’ accountability, cultural preservation ‘AND’ cultural renewal, equity ‘AND’ excellence, retribution ‘AND’ forgiveness. We must embrace the past ‘AND’ the present ‘AND’ the future.